From Outta Hell's Heart

Sex and Love

Sex and love. Do they hafta go together? Someone once warned me that a lotta people – mortals and nightkind alike – think the two go together. Pourquoi? I don’t see it.

Sex is fun, definitely friendly (though it doesn’t have to be), a satisfying way to blow off steam and one of the best ways to get to know someone. Sex is all laissez les bons temps rouler.

But I’ve never tied sex to love or expected the person(s) I played with under the sheets to love me. Hell, they don’t even hafta be my friend(s) if they don’t wanna. Yeah, I’ll admit that if I feel something all warm and tender for my under-the-sheets partner, the sex is even hotter, but...

Sometimes sex is the farthest thing from love on this fucking planet. And, I found out the hard way, for some sex IS love.

So...there’s my question: Do sex and love hafta go together? Oui ou non?

I'd love to read your comments and thoughts. I’m here with my guitar, fingering frets and stroking chords, just waiting... ;)

2008-02-21 03:21:40 GMT

Comments (3 total)

Author:Anonymous

It depends on the person, no? For me, I don't think I'd like to have sex with someone I didn't love at least a little.

It's like music. You can make music with someone and it can be good music, the rhythms and the harmonies right and everything together, and that can be all there is to it. Or you can click, and start creating something bigger, tossing the tune back and forth and adding to it, making it a dance. That's ecstasy. That doesn't happen with just anyone.

Just my take on it.

--Asha

2008-03-07 18:17:08 GMT

Author:Anonymous

Love and sex, now that is a problem a lot of people have. Thinking that to have sex you must have feelings for that person, personally I don't agree.. sometimes those one night stands are just that and something that we need every once in awhile, no ties, no after thoughts, just pleasure.
--Sheila

2008-05-30 12:09:22 GMT

Author:Anonymous

For me the love and sex thing don't go together. But love and trust,sex and tust, that definately goes together. I have to trust the person I love or the person I have sex with. I don't have to love them. To be honest I don't trust many people, and no one has kept my trust yet. In my experience all realationships are temporary and so is trust. Harsh but in my case true.
--Mandy

2008-09-04 02:04:45 GMT

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		A Rush of Wings (January 2008) Dante voices his opinions about nightkind, mortals, Fallen, music, whatever moves him.

		Sex and Love Sex and love. Do they hafta go together? Someone once warned me that a lotta people – mortals and nightkind alike – think the two go together. Pourquoi? I don’t see it. Sex is fun, definitely friendly (though it doesn’t have to be), a satisfying way to blow off steam and one of the best ways to get to know someone. Sex is all laissez les bons temps rouler. But I’ve never tied sex to love or expected the person(s) I played with under the sheets to love me. Hell, they don’t even hafta be my friend(s) if they don’t wanna. Yeah, I’ll admit that if I feel something all warm and tender for my under-the-sheets partner, the sex is even hotter, but... Sometimes sex is the farthest thing from love on this fucking planet. And, I found out the hard way, for some sex IS love. So...there’s my question: Do sex and love hafta go together? Oui ou non? I'd love to read your comments and thoughts. I’m here with my guitar, fingering frets and stroking chords, just waiting... ;) 2008-02-21 03:21:40 GMT Comments (3 total) Author:Anonymous It depends on the person, no? For me, I don't think I'd like to have sex with someone I didn't love at least a little. It's like music. You can make music with someone and it can be good music, the rhythms and the harmonies right and everything together, and that can be all there is to it. Or you can click, and start creating something bigger, tossing the tune back and forth and adding to it, making it a dance. That's ecstasy. That doesn't happen with just anyone. Just my take on it. --Asha 2008-03-07 18:17:08 GMT Author:Anonymous Love and sex, now that is a problem a lot of people have. Thinking that to have sex you must have feelings for that person, personally I don't agree.. sometimes those one night stands are just that and something that we need every once in awhile, no ties, no after thoughts, just pleasure. --Sheila 2008-05-30 12:09:22 GMT Author:Anonymous For me the love and sex thing don't go together. But love and trust,sex and tust, that definately goes together. I have to trust the person I love or the person I have sex with. I don't have to love them. To be honest I don't trust many people, and no one has kept my trust yet. In my experience all realationships are temporary and so is trust. Harsh but in my case true. --Mandy 2008-09-04 02:04:45 GMT Compose a comment for this post. Comment: 0 characters left (limit 4,000 characters). No HTML permitted. Author (optional): Email address or URL (optional): Word verification: To validate this comment, showing us that you are human, and not a computer, please retype the following code in the field provided. (This helps prevent blog spam.) Site Home